Rescuer
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Time is something Abusers like to control It’s also something that exists in a weird dynamic for them. When you dont reply to them, or include them they say How dare you not reply to my message! Or, maybe less abruptly Did you get my message, I expected a reply by now Often they want…
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Dont you start playing victim! (because that’s the role I have in mind for myself) I cant cope with… what youve just said, what youve just done…. (you’re expected to alleviate me, not challenge me, you’re supposed to soothe things…) You just need to take more responsibility (thats interesting, because ultimately, I’m taking all…
James Ballantyne 