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Survival of the Mildest – born to be Mild
As a consequence of loyalty, I had to stay mild Continue reading
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Born to be Loyal
Realising that I loyalty was the expectation of my childhood Continue reading
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Searching for Happiness, one feeling at a time
Searching for Happiness: Continue reading
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What my Projections began to reveal
What my projections began to reveal Continue reading
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Surviving Psychopathic Parenting (Part 26): Little Professor
Over the last few weeks I have, again, through a combination of therapy and personal reading, began to identify more about the ways in which I survived – or were guided towards surviving as a child in the midst of… Continue reading
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Light Life Days
I had no experience of light Life Days for a very long time Because, everything was trapped away Hiding, in a cupboard Hiding away, Heavy, very heavy But gradually, with safety, I began to take a few things out And… Continue reading
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Why ‘Healing for Men’ and not for all?
I sometimes get asked the question : ‘Why are you writing just to Men?’ so I thought I might share a little in response and maybe pose a few further thoughts on this, thoughts, that may not be complete, but… Continue reading
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Developing internal commitments to myself
I have stood and made a number of commitments to others. Commitments to workplace ideals and agreements Commitments to the terms and conditions of a large purchase Commitments to the planet as I have tried at times to reduce my… Continue reading
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True Courage
Im learning courage Not the courage to climb, to fight or to be successful Not the courage to be disliked, or happy But the courage to listen to the frightened parts of me The courage to love those parts The… Continue reading
James Ballantyne
The Universe conspires to help the dreamer
Paulo Coelho
Life is a Journey paved with Love
James Ballantyne 