Psychopathy
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The letter any Narc Abuse survivor could write.
It changed my entire life when I was able to stand back, to stand in some safe distance from damaging relationships and realise what the patterns were of them. Even now, I have to remember what I know , and… Continue reading
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The Sound of Silencing (How to lose friends and manipulate people)
Im giving you what I know. From what I have heard, directly. As I was watching in a fascinating documentary recently on the development of Art in America (‘The Art of making it’- I think) , they used the phrase… Continue reading
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Dear Men, Why it might not be you.
It can be difficult to find reference to examples and awareness of how women can be also, and as abusive, both to men and other women. More often the ‘narcissist videos’ or websites or fb groups are for either gender,… Continue reading
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The tiring, futility of trying to be good.
On trying to maintain being good. Continue reading
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The Differences between a Real or ‘Reverse’ Victim.
Trigger Warning – Abuse of any kind. Please do not read if you have experienced abuse, unless in a safe place to be able to do so. This is written to educate those who might not know the difference, if… Continue reading
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The two things that robbed me….of myself.
If yesterday I wrote about my own joinery from self loathing and denial to becoming more self referential, respectful and also giving space to trust my feelings. Today I’ve pondered the question – what happened to me, so that I… Continue reading
James Ballantyne 