James Ballantyne

James

  • Surviving Psychopathic Parenting (Part 26): Little Professor

    Over the last few weeks I have, again, through a combination of therapy and personal reading, began to identify more about the ways in which I survived – or were guided towards surviving as a child in the midst of… Continue reading

    Surviving Psychopathic Parenting (Part 26): Little Professor

  • Light Life Days

    I had no experience of light Life Days for a very long time Because, everything was trapped away Hiding, in a cupboard Hiding away, Heavy, very heavy But gradually, with safety, I began to take a few things out And… Continue reading

  • Fathers Day; It’s Complicated

    Mothers Day is ‘easy’, as is her birthday. Its not easy, but it’s easy because it’s clear cut, if you have read anything of my story on these pages, or had met her, you will know. For some of you… Continue reading

  • Why ‘Healing for Men’ and not for all?

    I sometimes get asked the question : ‘Why are you writing just to Men?’ so I thought I might share a little in response and maybe pose a few further thoughts on this, thoughts, that may not be complete, but… Continue reading

    Why ‘Healing for Men’ and not for all?

  • Developing internal commitments to myself

    I have stood and made a number of commitments to others. Commitments to workplace ideals and agreements Commitments to the terms and conditions of a large purchase Commitments to the planet as I have tried at times to reduce my… Continue reading

  • True Courage

    Im learning courage Not the courage to climb, to fight or to be successful Not the courage to be disliked, or happy But the courage to listen to the frightened parts of me The courage to love those parts The… Continue reading

    True Courage