James Ballantyne

The Universe conspires to help the dreamer

Paulo Coelho

  • Sensitivity : An Inconvenient Truth?

    The more I have reflected on Sensitivity, the more I realise how inconvenient it seems to be. For a start. Admitting being a sensitive person yourself… feels inconvenient. There can be ‘easier’ more ‘recognised’ more realisations that encourage greater sympathy… Continue reading

  • Male Sensitivity : Part 1 (Realising my own)

    Toughen up You need to stand up for yourself Wimp You’re being sensitive Softy Pussyfoot And the ultimate.. Stop being so Gay.  All words Ive heard in my life, some at school, some in places that were meant to be… Continue reading

  • Lets Talk Soul

    Have you ever thought about your soul? What’s your relationship with you soul? Why, did I know about my soul from my christian faith – but it was something that was ‘put off’ for the next life? It was as… Continue reading

  • Healing my (non) Anger.

    Anger is a Sin Dont you dare get Angry Good people dont get Angry We Shouldn’t feel Angry when we do A good boy doesn’t get angry. Anger will turn someone away Anger will mean someone else has to take… Continue reading

  • 3 Reasons why focussing on ourselves might be difficult for Men

    Thats what I talk about in this, my latest video – do give it a watch. (apologies for reposting, Its a new video….same title as before though!) Thank you, please do like and subscribe and share! Continue reading

  • Accepting the Positive.

    I wonder if this is a typically British thing. Lets face it, its far easier to put our complaints out in the open and enjoy the attention it receives. Playing victim can be an art form. The weather. What ‘someone… Continue reading

  • Awakening

    For everything under the sun, there is a time This is the season of your awakened harvesting When pain takes you to where you would rather not go. Through the white curtain of yesterdays to a place You had forgotten… Continue reading

  • Since I stopped believing myself, I feel a lot better.

    Thats the subtitle of my latest short You Tube Video. Do give it a watch and share – thank you Continue reading

  • No Such thing as Normal.

    The Words of Waterstones Cafe. Continue reading

    No Such thing as Normal.

  • Trauma’s long Thread.

    I was given a picture this week that has , so far, been helpful to me. Its about string… or rope… I was in conversation with someone who has supported me for a while through some of the challenges ive… Continue reading

Life is a Journey paved with Love