abuse
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But its rude to say it Just say it No, it sounds wrong Just say it I can write it down Say it James You mean its ok to Yes, just say it James. It feels uncomfortable, ill get into trouble No you won’t, Just say it, get it out Why do you want me…
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Time is something Abusers like to control It’s also something that exists in a weird dynamic for them. When you dont reply to them, or include them they say How dare you not reply to my message! Or, maybe less abruptly Did you get my message, I expected a reply by now Often they want…
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Dad, Do you think theres an all powerful, sovereign, all knowing, overseeing, higher power, dominating force thats controlling all our lives? Said the front of the Fathers day I sent to my Dad when I was about 13. Inside it read; Yeah, its Mum isn’t it? It was the one occasion probably in my life…
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Turn up at a church youth group hiding scratch marks under your sleeve, or bruises on your arm, and you are treated as a project, someone who needs attention and even too damaged to be considered useful. Turn up as someone considered ‘mature for their age’, who thinks of others more than themselves, is able…
James Ballantyne 