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I’m Glad my Mom Died
..is a raw, heartfelt, inspiring book. It’s about the way in which the unconscious expectations are placed on a child, it’s the story of how a child, then teenager, Jeannette McCurdy, has to resist growing up to maintain the fantasy… Continue reading
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The Sound of Silencing (How to lose friends and manipulate people)
Im giving you what I know. From what I have heard, directly. As I was watching in a fascinating documentary recently on the development of Art in America (‘The Art of making it’- I think) , they used the phrase… Continue reading
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Domestic Violence Awareness Month
This Month is #domesticviolenceawarenessmonth More details are here: https://www.daysoftheyear.com/days/domestic-violence-awareness-month/ Signs You Are In An Abusive Relationship A lot of people do not realize that they are in an abusive relationship. Here are some of the signs that you could be… Continue reading
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‘How can I stop myself becoming like them?’
Spiders, Clowns, Heights, Buttons, Spaces, The dark, Nuclear war, being bullied at school…. These weren’t the things I fear in most of my life. It wasnt things. It wasnt just ‘that parent’ that gave me considerable terrors. Have a read… Continue reading
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2 years of being able to breathe
I realised this week that I’ve been able to breathe for 2 years now, these were the first two years I’d been able to breathe in my whole life I remember when I walked into the flat 25 months ago… Continue reading
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10 Red Flags to Identify Emotionally Unhealthy Christians
Trigger Warning: Emotional Abuse, Spiritual Abuse, CPTSD, Narcissm, Child abuse. This piece contains material that may cause a reaction. Following Tanya Marlows quite brilliant piece on the statements that Christians have used in the wake of the RZMI revelations, in… Continue reading
James Ballantyne 