James

  • The Sound of Silencing (How to lose friends and manipulate people)

    Im giving you what I know. From what I have heard, directly. As I was watching in a fascinating documentary recently on the development of Art in America (‘The Art of making it’- I think) , they used the phrase… Continue reading

  • Practicing Safe Sensitivity.

    Google ‘Sensitive’ and what do you find? (especially in the images). I love both Elaine Arun and Hannah Jane Walkers books on Sensitivity – but – in the main who are their key audiences and examples? Hannahs book is wonderful… Continue reading

  • Sensitivity : An Inconvenient Truth?

    The more I have reflected on Sensitivity, the more I realise how inconvenient it seems to be. For a start. Admitting being a sensitive person yourself… feels inconvenient. There can be ‘easier’ more ‘recognised’ more realisations that encourage greater sympathy… Continue reading

  • Male Sensitivity : Part 1 (Realising my own)

    Toughen up You need to stand up for yourself Wimp You’re being sensitive Softy Pussyfoot And the ultimate.. Stop being so Gay.  All words Ive heard in my life, some at school, some in places that were meant to be… Continue reading

  • Lets Talk Soul

    Have you ever thought about your soul? What’s your relationship with you soul? Why, did I know about my soul from my christian faith – but it was something that was ‘put off’ for the next life? It was as… Continue reading

  • Healing my (non) Anger.

    Anger is a Sin Dont you dare get Angry Good people dont get Angry We Shouldn’t feel Angry when we do A good boy doesn’t get angry. Anger will turn someone away Anger will mean someone else has to take… Continue reading